4 Reasons Why You Should Be Confident

A little over six months ago, we took another path and we set foot on this business inspirational railway. We know, from experience how hard it is to stop for a few seconds, and enjoy your success, achievements or whatsoever you’re incline to. It’s hard to when there’s such a pressure  on you to carry out the biggest thing and be known for your work. However, the biggest thing that prevent people for pursuing their dreams is a lack of confidence. For some of us, self-confidence might be a thing we struggled with with growing up and yet, still working on it, not sure how to overcome it.

As humans, we all have fears, but a bit of confidence can help a long and defeat the uncertainty. So if you’re struggling with it; or you want an extra push, here are 4 reasons why you should be confident and to help you get through this phase.

#1 Stop comparing, stay focused on you. There will always be someone better than you, as well, as you’re probably outpacing someone in life also. It depends on where you stand. It’s a fact. You can’t be satisfied of yourself 100%, but it doesn’t mean you gotta to be not content with yourself and your personality. So, it’s just time for you to accept yourself and be okay with your personality. Being confident take some work, but it’s all about change of perception. If you believe you cannot change anything, you’re not on the right path. Indeed, if you don’t like something, change it. Everything is possible, it just takes some will power. Don’t forget, it’s a shame to be eager to be someone else. Being you is already a lot of work, because you might want to be the better version of yourself.

#2 Relax, go with the flow. Lacking of self-confidence is not something you can’t overcome. For now on, keep focus on yourself and be happy with you and your work. I know, it will sound a bit New age and Yogi – and be sure I ain’t – but relaxing and going with events and the flow is perfectly fine. As well, it’s exactly what you should do.

#3 Be positive. Look for the good in every situation. It ain’t that easy, and I perfectly know the outcome of those situations. As such, one thing had really helped me quite a lot: mediation and yoga. I don’t want to turn you guys all New age, *don’t worry*, I’m just being honest there. Looking for the good in every situation will only brighten your routine and daily life. Putting out there a quick guide to meditation and mindfulness.

#4 Do what you love. Life is too short to waste your time doing otherwise. Yes, do what makes you happy, and be sure you’re going to be proud with the outcome. We’re all making big decisions, and also bad ones. It’s not the “bad” adjective that matters. Just be sure you’re not taking decisions that will effect your daily life so much, that you’ll start to regret them.

 

“It is enlightening, albeit intimidating, to think how much control we have over our own lives. But understanding it and treasuring it—treating it like the powerful entity that it is—is the key to happiness.”
(Leandra Medine)

 

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  • Vyjay Rao

    Confidence is the foundation of success and hence it is necessary to ensure that this foundation is firm and never shaky, even under difficult circumstances.

    • You’re so right! Confidence comes from within, and it’s hard work to ensure it’s never shaky, but then you feel like you can take the world easily, by swept moves! x

  • Was just discussing this topic with a friend! Comparison is not healthy. You have to believe in your talents and ignore what others are doing!

    • It’s so true, comparison is not healthy and it won’t help when you want to be the best version of yourself! It’s surely do help, believing in yourself takes time, because comparison, in our modern society focused on social media, is the first thing you’re thinking about. It’s nice to learn about your competitors, but it’s not healthy to think you’re not good enough when you’re comparing to someone who’s much more into the biz, in term of times, than you! x

  • Kids Travel Books

    Love it! Confidence is my word for this year and I always love reading how people approach it. It’s a great reminder. All the tips are great, but I think #1 is especially true. Thanks for sharing.

    • I’m glad you loved it! I love sharing such tips, since they really helped me! x

  • I agree that confidence is a great trait to have, over-confidence is another thing entirely. Having confidence shows from the inside out and believing in yourself can be motivating and go a long way in having success

    • It’s sure! Over confidence is somehow annoying, because being self-centered isn’t always good. Being confident shows through your style, your work and your behavior. It’s necessary when you want to succeed! x

  • Veronica Pototska

    Liana, these are very good and inspiring advices. Together with them I would like to remind us all that the key to our self confidence is … accepting ourselves. That’s when the happiness comes in.

    • Veronica, I’m so happy you loved those tips! Yes to this. Self confidence comes from within and it all starts with accepting yourself for who you are, with your talents and failures. Positive thinking is the core of everything! x

  • Richard Anthony Baldoza

    It’s also for the person. Confidence is a key to grow and to develop as a person. Without it, one would always be afraid and be hiding at a corner. Your tips are amazing. Just shows how confident and beautiful you are. <3

  • kcalpesh

    The first one is such a basic and simple one. Yet we ignore it. Just about a 2 days back, I was explaining to my kid abuot his sports day event. In the trial run he ended losing and was wondering why that happened despite trying his best. I showed him the pics of the final race. He was more keen on looking at what his competitors were doing, rather than focusing on his own thing.