A little over six months ago, we took another path and we set foot on this business inspirational railway. We know, from experience how hard it is to stop for a few seconds, and enjoy your success, achievements or whatsoever you’re incline to. It’s hard to when there’s such a pressure on you to carry out the biggest thing and be known for your work. However, the biggest thing that prevent people for pursuing their dreams is a lack of confidence. For some of us, self-confidence might be a thing we struggled with with growing up and yet, still working on it, not sure how to overcome it.
As humans, we all have fears, but a bit of confidence can help a long and defeat the uncertainty. So if you’re struggling with it; or you want an extra push, here are 4 reasons why you should be confident and to help you get through this phase.
#1 Stop comparing, stay focused on you. There will always be someone better than you, as well, as you’re probably outpacing someone in life also. It depends on where you stand. It’s a fact. You can’t be satisfied of yourself 100%, but it doesn’t mean you gotta to be not content with yourself and your personality. So, it’s just time for you to accept yourself and be okay with your personality. Being confident take some work, but it’s all about change of perception. If you believe you cannot change anything, you’re not on the right path. Indeed, if you don’t like something, change it. Everything is possible, it just takes some will power. Don’t forget, it’s a shame to be eager to be someone else. Being you is already a lot of work, because you might want to be the better version of yourself.
#2 Relax, go with the flow. Lacking of self-confidence is not something you can’t overcome. For now on, keep focus on yourself and be happy with you and your work. I know, it will sound a bit New age and Yogi – and be sure I ain’t – but relaxing and going with events and the flow is perfectly fine. As well, it’s exactly what you should do.
#3 Be positive. Look for the good in every situation. It ain’t that easy, and I perfectly know the outcome of those situations. As such, one thing had really helped me quite a lot: mediation and yoga. I don’t want to turn you guys all New age, *don’t worry*, I’m just being honest there. Looking for the good in every situation will only brighten your routine and daily life. Putting out there a quick guide to meditation and mindfulness.
#4 Do what you love. Life is too short to waste your time doing otherwise. Yes, do what makes you happy, and be sure you’re going to be proud with the outcome. We’re all making big decisions, and also bad ones. It’s not the “bad” adjective that matters. Just be sure you’re not taking decisions that will effect your daily life so much, that you’ll start to regret them.
“It is enlightening, albeit intimidating, to think how much control we have over our own lives. But understanding it and treasuring it—treating it like the powerful entity that it is—is the key to happiness.”